But we still can use the term 'woman needs to be taken care off' kan?? Soooo, i don't see the part of being materialistic or gold digger is wrong kaaaann? Guys! women needs to be taken care off, Remember that!
So you better work freaking hard, if not, you will be single for the rest of your life? hahahaha... (bias sungguh my statement)
Akan tetapi, ade jugak wanita-wanita di luar sana yang tidak langsung memandang kebendaan, itu pilihan masing-masing. Ibarat, susah dan senang akan ku redah lautan api demi mu oh sayangku! (aku memang salute kaum hawa sebegini)
As for my personal and most honest opinion based on my 29 years of experience living and breathing, i memang memilih sikit bab berkawan dengan lelaki. Coz before i left for my university, my mom whispered to my ear and she said 'Gurl, your an adult now, what ever decisions you make will make a difference in your future'. And mom did not ended it there, she whispered again and said 'You make your bed, You lie on it'. Mom left me speechless, coz i hate making my bed, but i do love lying on it!!
Well, to keep the story short, i married someone who comes from a great family. A family who appreciates one another very much. If you are wondering if my husband is a millionaire and drives a ferrrari or x6 and bought me a mini cooper as my hantaran, teetttttttttt........you are sooooo wrong. Haha.
He is one super cool guy who works his ass out to give the world to us. One hardworking dude I've ever met in my entire life!
Tapi cinta kami bukan lah selalu manis ibarat gula-gula mentos, we do quarrel thru out our relationship. Well, we make out and we move on. :)
I said to him 'Yes i like you a lot, and i admire every inch of you but u must know that I'm gonna marry you because i know you will be a very good dad to our babies and you will feed us good food'. (i can't remember whether i was saying it to him or giving instructions? heheh)
So, gurls out there, being materialistic tak salah if you have a very solid reason for it! but don't get me wrong here k. Being in love with someone is a feeling that you can't justify. In my case, both of us complement each other. Both of us work really hard to give the world to our kids. (Dear Tasya and Ryan, when you can read, you are soo reading this entry!)
Jika engkau minta intan permata
Tak mungkin ku mampu
Tapi sayangkan ku capai bintang
Dari langit untukmu
Jika engkau minta satu dunia
Akan aku coba
Ku hanya mampu jadi milikmu
Pastikan kau bahagia
Hati ini bukan milik ku lagi
Seribu tahun pun akan ku nanti
Sayangku jangan kau persoalkan
Terukir di bintang
Tak mungkin hilang cintaku padamu
ps: Well, that's life, some are born with a silver spoon in the mouth and some are born with a plastic spoon in the mouth.